My favorite question is WHY. It might be the social worker in me, the life coach or the control freak. I just really, really like asking why. In fact, I could 'why' myself into a rabbit hole faster than you can say...why.
I like asking this question, of you and of myself, because it gives me the feeling of control, clarity, order. It helps me make sense of this world and allows me to put each thing in its rightful place.
What I've been learning more and more lately, however, is that WHY is a slippery slope, ultimately with no definitive answer. Just shifting perspective and paradigms. It's almost insane for me to try to figure it all out when all of the variables change the moment you stop and observe it.
Today, I'm practicing surrender instead.